Unless you've gone through it yourself, it's difficult to describe the match. I will attempt to try.
Justin started interviewing for residency spots in November. It is a frustrating process because it's not like a regular job interview. In a regular job interview, you interview and you hear back in a few weeks with the job saying either, 'we like you, you're hired' or 'sorry, keep looking'. In medicine, you interview at several places and then you rank them. 1 being the place you'd most like to go, 2 being your second choice, and so on. Then, all the programs that you interviewed at rank the applicants they interviewed. 1 being the person they'd most like to hire, 2 being the person they'd like to have second, and so on. Then, all this information is entered into a computer which generates a 'match'. I don't understand the specifics of how it works or why it has to be this way, but it's been going on like this for years.
Interview season ends in January and our rank list must be submitted in February. Then we wait. And wait. And wait. We wait for two things. The email that tells us whether we matched or not (we got that on Monday, and were very happy to find out that we DID, in fact, match), and then the big day itself - MATCH DAY!
In the days leading up to today (Match Day), Justin and I haven't been sleeping well. There's been a lot of anxiety, excitement, nerves, and panic attacks. Justin and I have been having a lot of 'what if' conversations. Basically, it's like waiting for Christmas when you're a little kid. You get nervous excitement in your gut because you know something amazing is about to happen and you, almost literally, cannot wait!
The closer we got to match day, the more anxious I became. I tried to keep myself busy with little things (I don't think my house has ever been cleaner). I tried reading books (I read pretty fast, but I think I set a new record). Basically, I was doing anything I could to keep my mind off of the upcoming match. Nothing worked.
Last night I woke up at 4 a.m. and was unable to go back to sleep. I was too excited. This morning seemed to drag on and on! I swear, one hour felt like 5! Justin and I kept checking the time. We'd swear that 30 minutes had passed only to discover that it'd only been 5.
Finally, it was time for us to go pick Clayton up from school and head down to UVM. When we got there we got caught up in the nervous excitement. All of Justin's classmates were there, anxiously waiting as well. There were also spouses, children, parents, friends, and students from other classes there to share the excitement as well. The excitement in the air really was palpable. It was pretty amazing!
At 12:00 the students were invited to race to their mailboxes and grab their letters and find out where they were going. It was a MOB SCENE! Because it was so crazy, the kids and I stayed behind. Justin promised to grab his letter and bring it back to us UNOPENED, so that we could all read it together. Waiting for him to come back was almost excruciating. Finally, he returned. He opened his letter and we learned that we will be spending the next 3-4 years at...
(drum roll)
...MEMORIAL HOSPITAL in SOUTH BEND, INDIANA!!!
It was our first choice. We are over the moon. I can't stop smiling/laughing/crying/shaking. The anticipation has been building for so long that I'm almost not sure what to do with myself anymore!! (Pack, I suppose.)
I am so proud of Justin and how hard he's worked over the past four years.
Now, without further ado, here is picture overload from Match Day:
Me and the kids waiting inside while Justin parked the car (parking was CRAZY today)!












Justin opening his letter.







So there you have it. Match Day. It's been quite a rush. The adrenaline has been pumping so hard for so long, and now that it's over I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to take a long nap.
Bottom line: We matched. To Memorial Hospital. In South Bend, Indiana. We're estatic.
17 comments:
Girl, well done, well done!!!
Congrats!! I'm so happy for you all!
Also, I love the picture with you and Justin hugging...Claytons face is priceless, now thats a boy thats excited his Dad got his top chioce!!!
I'm so excited for you guys! Congrats to Justin for getting his first choice. When do you guys move? I bet it's a relief to finally have a destination.
Waiting to hear about residency is so hard! That's nice you found out earlier this week he matched, and how fun all the med school people got to do it together (despite the pandemonium). Maybe only the Army is different, but for us Todd logged in at like 3 AM Pacific time; no one else around, just him, a computer, and me on the phone in Reno. But I remember that feeling of (1) hoping you get into the residency you want, and (2) hoping you're not stuck in some crappy location.
Yay! I'm so excited you get to be in IN!! that will be so fun for the kids and so much easier for relatives to not have to split the time between you! Maybe I'll see you guys when I come visit KT in July! yay!
Congrats!! We are excited for you guys to be joining us in the land of Hoosiers!
Great pictures by the way, I was almost expectiing the letter to say "You have been called to serve in..." :)
Congratulations. So glad you guys got your first choice!!!!!!!
Congrats Smith Family! I'm glad that we will get to spend the next 3-4 years working with you. It will be great. It's a huge comfort knowing that we will know someone when we get to a new, strange place.
Hooray and congratulations! That's awesome that you got your first pick! It made me smile to think of a bunch of grown men and women running to their mailbox to get their letters :)
I am so happy for u guys!!! I've had a big cry lump in my throat reading this post!
Congrats!!! What exciting news! SO happy for you guys....and can't wait to read all about your new life :).
I realized the date and hurried to your blog. CONGRATS TO JUSTIN and all of you! That is wonderful. I was reading every word and just got so excited I even got a little choked up. I am so happy for you guys and can't wait for that day to come....some day in the distance =)
Now go pack!
Congrats! That sounds worse than the day the bar results came out!
Masterfully written M'Lady. You've managed to start the anxiety a year early for us . . . thanks? I'm happy for you. I'm thinking Pennsylvania for this summer, how far would that be for guys?
Matt told me the great news! Justin and Ariane, Congratulations! What a relief! I think you did a great job describing the event. I remember on our match day (I was expecting #3 at the time)--we were in Las Vegas (and had a smaller group in a smaller room, since most of the classmates stayed in Reno). Instead of letters in mailboxes, the med students received big stars, like movie stars. I don't know how to explain it. But afterwards we went out to eat and then to the park to play...I spent most of the time on the phone telling family members. It's very exciting! Congratulations! We'll have to drive to Southbend to see you guys!
Soooooo happy that you guys got to go where you wanted!! Now you can actually plan where you'll live etc.! I totally know how that feels! What a relief!
Congrats on the match you guys!
So excited for you all! That's awesome you got exactly what you wanted! Yay!!!!!
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